the M word

"Consent", is not just something that happens to be a word. It's a word that should be taught and understood well in every society, specially here.  Doing something without someone's consent can be considered as an offence to that person. Consent is the root of many things that are in existence like partnering up in business or regulating an organisation of some sort like schools, corporations, government, or we can take personal things into prospect such as choosing careers, goals, interests, etc. In a sense, democracy is based on consent. In political philosophy, the phrase consent of the governed refers to the idea that a government's legitimacy and moral right to use state power is only justified and lawful when consented to by the people or society over which that political power is exercised. So you see, even the law wouldn't work if it is not consented by the people.  So in a way, doing something without someone's consent would be illegitimate for ...

If you're reading this, I assume you're in a mature relationship and not in a 6th grade hubby-bubby stuffs. And also there is a teeny-tiny bit of humour here. Gentlemen, we all know having a girlfriend can be a pain in the butt. There's certain things you ALWAYS need to keep in mind, certain things you ALWAYS have to do. It's not your fault that sometimes you forget stuffs, sometimes you're thinking something else, sometimes you don't know stuffs. But that's ok because you know you're a good guy, and you can always be better. Because women deserve better men .    Here's some stuffs from my experience that has helped me. From one bro to another, spreads the Bro-wisdom. I must tell you before you jump right in that some stuffs might not make sense to you, but trust me, this will work. Be honest: Yeah, honesty is like the butter on your bread, or the honey in your tea. If you're not honest with your girl, then kiss your butt goodbye, she's dump...

Alpha     A few months ago I stumbled upon something that would change my life, something all of us need to learn, something that needs to be taught everywhere, something so old yet so evergreen. That "something" is Stoicism. Stoicism is an ancient Greek school of philosophy founded by Zeno of Citium, in Athens. Stoicism is a philosophy teaching disciples to endure hardship, pain and struggle without any emotions or any complaints. Stoicism, in my opinion, is the right thing to learn to take control of yourself. Zeno of Citium      You may ask what's Stoicism got anything to do with being alpha. We will get there, I'm just laying out the foundation to explain how I got myself into being "Alpha". What Stoicism taught me was to stay calm, stay cool at every given situation because staying calm is most alpha-like thing a person can do. Not only does staying calm helps you think clearly, it also prevents you from making immediate actions or decisions which might...

The Fear Of Mediocrity     There is something  I fear more than anything. I see it all around me. It troubles me. That thing is mediocrity, or being average. And this trepidation drives me all day, every day, every second and every time. This fear is what pushes me.     An average person lives a very average life. I can describe the lives of such people. There's this man whose name is Carl. Carl wakes up at 9 AM after snoozing off his alarm for the 6th time. He lazily gets up with no motive, freshens up and then has his breakfast and heads off to work. He doesn't want to go to college in the first place, but he goes anyway because that's what the society is telling him to do, because that's what is expected from him by the society. He spends his most sorrowful 8 hours in college, then returns home. After reaching home, he loosens his tie and relaxes on the couch with a beer, hopping between channels. He gets on his social media, watches videos, reacts on m...