the M word

If you're reading this, I assume you're in a mature relationship and not in a 6th grade hubby-bubby stuffs. And also there is a teeny-tiny bit of humour here. Gentlemen, we all know having a girlfriend can be a pain in the butt. There's certain things you ALWAYS need to keep in mind, certain things you ALWAYS have to do. It's not your fault that sometimes you forget stuffs, sometimes you're thinking something else, sometimes you don't know stuffs. But that's ok because you know you're a good guy, and you can always be better. Because women deserve better men .    Here's some stuffs from my experience that has helped me. From one bro to another, spreads the Bro-wisdom. I must tell you before you jump right in that some stuffs might not make sense to you, but trust me, this will work. Be honest: Yeah, honesty is like the butter on your bread, or the honey in your tea. If you're not honest with your girl, then kiss your butt goodbye, she's dump...

    A MUCH NEEDED SKILL IN TODAY'S WORLD      Have you ever been in a situation where the other person you're talking with just doesn't listen? Have you ever been in an argument where the other person just doesn't understand? Of course, you have and GOD I've been in many. I kept wondering why is it so that the other person doesn't agree with me although I stand correct.      The secret here was, is and always will be listening. Let us think. When was the last time that we genuinely listened to someone? When was the last time that we listened to understand and not to reply? When was the last time you listened with your heart and your mind? If you're like me, then it was probably never. Now with age and experience, I have realized that listening is the wisest, most effective and the kindest tool to use when negotiating or making a point to a person.       It's paradoxical that when you listen more, people tend to listen to you ev...